Jesus was praying in a certain place,
and after he had finished, one of his disciples said to him,
“Lord, teach us to pray…”
And what follows is a deep teaching by Jesus on prayer.
So let’s look closely at what he is saying to us
about the nature of prayer and how to pray.
Let’s go deeper into this very familiar prayer.
The first thing in this passage, of course, is what we know as the Lord’s Prayer.
Certainly it is our Lord Jesus’ prayer that he taught,
but we could also call it “the disciples’ prayer,” the Prayer of the Disciple.
The disciples had wanted a special prayer
to distinguish themselves as the followers of Jesus,
like John the Baptist had done for his disciples.
This follows in the tradition of a long line of spiritual teachers
giving their disciples a distinctive prayer
that expressed core values or teachings of that particular spiritual master.
So the prayer expresses the values that the disciples hold.
It is expressive of discipleship.
Jesus said to them, “When you pray, say: Father…”
He tells his disciples to dare to address God as he did:
Abba, Father, Daddy – the intimate, personal and child-like term – Abba
That is to say, address God with innocence and in an unsophisticated way,
with perfect trust and with the openness of vulnerability of a child.
“When you pray, say: Father, hallowed by your name.”
The prayer that Jesus teaches them begins in the tradition
already ancient by the time of the 1st Century
in devotion to the Name of God.
There is a whole spirituality and prayer practice
based on devotion to the Name of God
that continues to this day in Judaism.
The Name of God, of the One whose Name is “I AM Who I AM,”
the unpronounceable Name
Jesus taking this devotion to God’s Name to its greatest depths
is living out his own life in what he says and does.
This speaks of his union with the Father,
and his perfect self-offering.
When we see Jesus,
we see the very essence of God reflected to us.
In Jesus we see God.
Therefore we also hallow the Name of Jesus. His Name is holy to us.
Continuing in the prayer: Let Your kingdom come –
This is an expression of surrender and self offering,
acknowledging who has sovereignty, whose will leads the way.
This is to say, “Let your kingdom come in me.” You are the Sovereign, and I am your subject/your servant/your slave;
This is the expression of a disciple – surrender.
Give us this day – now here is a statement of radical trust.
More literally the Greek reads,
“give us tomorrow’s bread each day as it come.”
Like the children of Israel in the desert,
the manna only came a day at a time, not even for one day ahead.
So this is an expression of radical trust on the part of the disciple,
trusting for needs to be met only in the current moment.
Then the petition of asking for forgiveness for our sins,
sins being the experiences of separation from God and from others,
corresponds to our relationship and identity in Christ and with others.
“Forgive our sins, for indeed we ourselves forgive everyone owing us.”
This is a precondition - that we have committed to forgive –
because in praying “Let your kingdom come” we surrender.
In this kingdom there is no separation or alienation of sin.
So we have already committed to forgiving by saying,
“Let your kingdom come.”
Lead us not into the place where we will be put to the test,
where calamity would happen.
In praying that, we recognize our weakness and ask for mercy,
which is God’s ever-flowing grace, love, compasson and assistance
directed towards us.
This prayer is both a simple and concentrated prayer
given for those who are identified as disciples following Jesus.
In obedience we then pray this disciples’ prayer,
this Lord’s Prayer, the Our Father
in every one of our liturgies in the Book of Common Prayer.
But Jesus does not just give the disciples a prayer
so they can be like John the Baptist’s disciples with their own prayer.
He goes on and shows them how to pray it, how to pray.
He tells them a parable:
“Suppose one of you has a friend,
and you go to him at midnight and say to him,
'Friend, lend me three loaves of bread;
for a friend of mine has arrived,
and I have nothing to set before him.'”
Now, isn’t that a rather outrageous request?
This is not just waiting until the last moment to ask.
This is asking after it’s too late to ask!
“And [the neighbor] answers from within,
'Do not bother me; the door has already been locked,
and you’re going to wake the children,
and I’ve already gone to bed too;
I cannot get up and give you anything.'”
This is the kind of response we would probably expect.
Even your best friend would be justified in turning you down.
Fortunately God loves us more than even our best friend.
It is the shamelessness of such requesting that gets the response,
asking without modesty, without regard, persistently.
And that is what Jesus instructs his disciples to express in their praying.
“Ask, and it will be given you.
Seek, and you will find.
Knock, and it will be opened to you.
For EVERYONE asking…” (the text states) EVERYONE will get an answer.
Keep on asking. Why? … Here’s the deal:
You continue to ask until you get the prayer request right.
Keep on asking until you have figured out how you are supposed to ask
and what you are supposed to ask.
Then the answer you get will be only for your good, not for ill.
It will be praying within the will of God, within the Kingdom come.
Continue to ask until you figure out what really needs to be asked for.
To pray repeating your request is an act of trusting,
trusting in the relationship and trusting in the outcome.
Jesus continues teaching about the nature of
this kind of persistent, continual praying:
“Is there anyone among you who, if your child asks for a fish,
will give a snake instead of a fish?
Or if the child asks for an egg, will give a scorpion?
If you then, who are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children,
how much more will the heavenly Father
give the Holy Spirit to those who ask him!"
Good gifts – and the best gift is Holy Spirit who directs all asking,
the One who fills all as answer,
the One who prays within us with “sighs too deep for words.”
Are we afraid in what we ask of God that it will be harmful for us?
Surely not!
It’s not just good gifts, like nourishing food/manna out there in the desert
instead of harmful snakes and scorpions that God gives us.
God also gives the best gift, the Holy Spirit
who directs all asking, who fills all as answer.
So there is a lot here in this Gospel reading about the nature of prayer,
of continuing persistence in prayer,
and deep trust in the One to whom we make our audacious requests –
deep trust that we will be nourished in all good,
and indeed in God’s Spirit.
This is the prayer we memorize as children,
the go to prayer when we don’t know what else to pray.
Think about this when in today’s Eucharist
we come to the place at the end of the Great Thanksgiving Prayer
and before the bread is broken
when we pray this Prayer that Jesus taught us
for our sake as would be disciples.